Speaking Up at the Right Time

There is a story about a boy who fell in love with a girl. He always believed she knew how he felt about her but she never gave him a sign that she did. He grew up loving her more than anything else in the world. But when the boy and girl went their separate ways, he never saw her again.

The girl really liked the boy and hoped he would work up the nerve to tell her how he felt. Girls want their guys to be strong and confident. It takes most guys a long time to figure that out. It takes them longer to start to feel confident.

Now just imagine what it must be like to be a girl celebrity. You have thousands of male fans but most of them are too shy to really express themselves. They fantastize about meeting the girl celebrity but it will never happen, and not because they are so far apart.

If you're just going to be a fan and nothing more it's okay to like a girl celebrity. But if you're really determined to make an impression on her you have to do it in a non-creepy way. Guys end up going to jail for stalking their favorite girl celebrities.

The thing is that you have to be in the right place at the right time -- and then you have to let it happen. You can't make it happen. That means you cannot set up a fake situation and expect the girl celebrity to fall for it. Heck, she might even have security that watches out for her.

Young people really struggle with relationships and maybe it's better if guys learn not to set such high expectations. Yeah, she's really cute but there are plenty of girls around your home who are cute and easier to talk to.

When you meet the right girl you naturally make her the celebrity of your heart anyway. The best thing is not to rush it. Mutual love happens when all the pieces fall into place.

You might be better off spending a few years thinking about cars rather than obsessing over girls because at least that way you'll develop some interests and relax. Learning to be confident in who you are is the secret to "being yourself", which is the advice we always get from older people when we ask how to impress girls.

We can't all be leaders in our fields but we can treat ourselves like leaders. When you respect yourself others will respect you, too. And it's that self-respect which serves as the foundation for all good friendships, relationships, and leaderships.

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